Risking rejection
When I met my daughter’s first-grade teacher three years ago, I knew she was a kindred spirit. I just adore her. She is warm, funny, wise and generous. I always feel optimistic around her. When she...
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I nearly abandoned this blog yesterday. A friend told me about a book that chronicles a challenge extremely similar to mine: My Year with Eleanor: A Memoir by Noelle Hancock. As I understand it, Noelle...
View ArticleNotes from beneath the tarp
The last time I felt the sting of a belly flop, my belly was considerably smaller. Recently I noticed a friend jumping off the diving board at our town pool. She is petite, blond, pretty and in great...
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It’s amazing how much shame is wrapped up in two numbers – my weight and my clothing size. At 43, my metabolism has seen better, faster days. I have dieted, exercised and lost as much as 35 pounds at a...
View ArticleBraving the blank page
Writing fiction doesn’t sound very daring, but clearly it scares the pants off me. Otherwise I wouldn’t try so hard to avoid it. O, the procrastination. Must straighten house! Must do paperwork! Must...
View ArticleNo need to shout your sexual history
With two pregnancies and a gallbladder removal under my belt (pun intended), I am no stranger to needles. But I had never given blood before today. The thought of it always gave me the heebie-jeebies....
View ArticleWe’ll always have vodka
My mother ran a perfect household. The house was always immaculate. She was a great cook. Her dinner parties went off without a hitch. I did not get that gene. My house is always covered in dog hair,...
View ArticleDouble-dog dare me
There are a lot of days in one year. A paltry 20 days into my 365-day commitment, I am already panicking that my ideas will run out before the year does. So as I am planning ways to stretch my limits...
View ArticleThe squeaky wheel gets the discount
Never let it be said that doing this blog doesn’t pay. Yesterday, the girls and I went back-to-school shopping at the mall, as did the rest of our country (or so it seemed). If you believe the...
View ArticleA difficult conversation
It’s hard for me to write this post because it involves the personal life of someone whose privacy I want to protect. I’ve been trying to write around the details for the last half-hour. Rather than...
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